The Role of a Mediator and What to Expect During Mediation
UKFamilyMediationService
October 11, 2024
uK Family Mediation Service Birmingham
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UK Family Mediation Birmingham
When a relationship ends, it’s often in the best interest of both parties to come to a mutual agreement on the terms of separation, especially if there are children or significant assets involved. Mediation can be a cost-effective and less adversarial way to resolve disputes. But what happens when your ex refuses to mediate?
Firstly, it’s important to understand why your ex might be resistant to mediation. They may be feeling hurt, angry, or they might not trust the process. In some cases, they may feel they have more to gain from going to court. Recognising these emotions and concerns is the first step towards addressing the issue.
The cost of scheduling court and lawyers for couples who are splitting up can be very high and sometimes can even outside of the realms of what people can afford.
It may be that one partner is in a better financial situation than the other and this may feel like the balance of power has been thrown out and the other person has less control over the situation. Fortunately mediation offers a more cost effective and time saving option to work on the disputes in separation. Speak to the UK Family Mediation Birmingham today to discuss your options.
Communication is Key
Open lines of communication are essential. Reach out to your ex-partner and express why you believe mediation is the best option for both of you. Highlight the benefits such as reduced legal fees, a quicker resolution, and the ability to control the outcome rather than leaving it in the hands of a judge.
Seek Legal Advice
If your ex still refuses to mediate, seek legal advice. A solicitor can help you understand your rights and may be able to persuade your ex-partner’s legal counsel of the benefits of mediation.
Court-Ordered Mediation
The court may order mediation as part of the legal process during separation or child access before things escalate. If your ex-partner continues to refuse mediation, you mediator can provide you with a MIAM (Mediation Information Assessment Meeting) certificate for you to evidence the lack of co-operation from the other side
Support in Difficult Times
Mediation is a process where a neutral third-party mediator helps divorcing couples discuss and resolve disputes related to their separation, such as property division, financial settlements, and child arrangements.
Ultimately, you cannot force someone to mediate if they are absolutely against it. If they are making attempts fail, prepare yourself for the possibility of going to court. Remember, the goal is to reach a resolution that is fair and minimises the impact on any children involved.
Speak to our network of Mediators. We are available to offer online, mediation support for separating couples